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BDSM Basics and Education

Insightful Quotes about Submission in BDSM

Submission is not weakness – it is the furthest thing from it. Often, people stereotype a sub as the introverted and agreeable type. However, submissives come in all shapes, sizes, genders, and personalities. Submission, like anything, is a spectrum. Exploring this either as a submissive or Dominant is a beautiful journey for all involved. These quotes about submission explore all the nuances to this level of devotion. I did my best to find quotes about submission that were not gendered, or can easily be made gender neutral. Above all, I avoided “Fifty Shades” like the plague. I hope you enjoy these quotes about submission as much as I do! Certainly, they “stirred” a few things up!

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Sex Toy Reviews

Review: Butter Wellness – The Personal Massager

Two Important Disclaimers: Not all people who identify as men have prostates, and not all people with prostates identify as men. I unfortunately have to use some binary language in this review to target relevant search keywords. 

Additionally, I received this product free from Butter Wellness in exchange for my honest review.

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Emotional Health and Aftercare

Nurturing Emotional Well-being: The Comprehensive Guide to BDSM Aftercare and Self-Exploration

In the world of BDSM, aftercare and self-exploration play vital roles in promoting emotional well-being and fostering a deeper connection between partners. This comprehensive guide explores the importance of BDSM aftercare, different types of aftercare, considerations for various types of play, negotiating aftercare, the concept of emotional drop, and reframing it as an opportunity for self-exploration through journaling and self-care.

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Relationship Dynamics and Communication

Sex Positivity in Practice: Tips and Techniques for Bringing Positive Energy into Your Intimacy

Sex positivity is all about embracing your sexual desires and exploring them in a way that feels empowering, respectful, and fulfilling. To clarify, this means exploring them however that may feel authentic for you. Nowadays, where shame and stigma around sexuality can often run rampant, practicing it can be a powerful way to cultivate a healthy, positive relationship with your sexuality. Similarly, pushing an agenda of compulsory physical sexuality and intimacy as the standard stigmatizes how intimacy can look for sexually expansive identities, such as asexuality.

In this article, we’ll be exploring tips and techniques for bringing sex positivity into your intimacy. From building intimacy and connection with your partner(s) to exploring new sexual experiences in a respectful and empowering way. These tips and techniques can help you cultivate a positive, empowering mindset around your sexuality.

So, whether you’re a seasoned player or just starting to explore your sexual desires, this article offers practical strategies for embracing sex positivity and bringing positive energy into your intimacy. Let’s dive in!

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BDSM Basics and Education

The Ultimate Guide to Introducing BDSM Into Your Relationship

In recent years, we’ve seen a noticeable shift in how society views BDSM and kink. More than ever, these once-taboo topics are making their way into mainstream conversations and bedrooms. But what is it about BDSM and kink that has captured the collective curiosity? How do you start a BDSM relationship? And more importantly, how do we introduce BDSM into our existing relationships in a healthy and safe way?

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BDSM Basics and Education

BDSM Classes: Your Ultimate Guide to Starting Your BDSM Journey

In an effort to unravel the mysteries of their desires, many are turning towards BDSM classes as an accessible avenue for exploration and learning. Far from being strictly about sex, BDSM encompasses a diverse array of practices that touch upon facets of our identities, self-expression, and relationships. For those considering the journey into BDSM, exploring BDSM education offers a safe, informed, and community-oriented place to start.

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Exploration and Self-Discovery

The Ultimate Guide to Introducing Non-Monogamy Into Your Relationship

The world of relationships is as diverse as the people who inhabit it. One form that’s gaining visibility are non-monogamous relationships. If you’re intrigued by the idea and wondering how to introduce non-monogamy into your relationship, you’re in the right place.

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Practical Tips and Resources

5 Ways to Enhance Communication Skills in Your Relationship

To enhance communication in relationships is to invite a deeper level of understanding and intimacy with your partner. Effective relationship communication, a vital set of relationship skills, goes beyond resolving disagreements – it forms the basis of sharing our innermost thoughts, aspirations, and fears. Improving communication in relationships, therefore, is not just beneficial, it’s essential. With practical tips and a dedication to developing healthy communication habits, we can all build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. So, let’s explore five key ways to accomplish this.

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BDSM Basics and Education

Why You Should Consider Working with a Sex and Relationship Coach

We all yearn for fulfilling, meaningful, and satisfying relationships and sexual experiences. However, achieving this is not always straightforward. Importantly, there are crucial differences between a coach and a sex therapist. We’ll explore all these and more! Here are considerations and benefits to working with and hiring a sex and relationship coach.

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